Update...

Avery update...

She is 10 days old now. A few days ago she weighed 3 lbs 9 ozs, but then she lost a little. I'm hoping tomorrow she'll have gained a little back. She was off the bili lights for two days then on again for two days...right now she's off them again. I like it better when she's off the lights because the nurses will let me hold her as long as I want to. She's been "tiring out" on her feedings a little so we're trying not to push her so much and we're watching her queues when she's ready to eat and when she's too tired and needs it in her tube instead.

Yesterday morning I got a phone call from the NICU telling me that they needed to move Avery to their sister hospital across town. They needed to move her because the NICU at Siena (where she was at) is a level 3 NICU and they were way over capacity and needed a baby to move to the level 2 NICU at San Martin. Here is a VERY small, blurry cell phone picture of her being loaded up and moved out. She rode in an ambulance with a NICU nurse and a respiratory therapist.



I was really bummed about them moving her at first because it is quite a bit farther away from our house, but now that I've spent a couple of days there with her, I'm glad they moved her and I really think she'll thrive in the nice quiet nursery that has 5 other "eaters and growers" just like her. She is currently in a room with two sets of twins...she probably feels sad and lonely that everyone else gets a roommate in bed with them and she has to sleep all alone :)



Today was a really good day for her. She took all of her feedings just fine and didn't tire out once. She is such a little tiny sweet thing and I can't wait until we can bring her home with us.

I also wanted to send a public "shout-out" thank you to Diane for spending the week with us and getting kids home from school, doing laundry, organizing the baby room and hanging decor on the wall above the crib. It looks so sweet and we all love it! Thanks again Diane...YOU REALLY ARE GREAT! :)

She's Here!!!

Many of you have heard about our exciting and crazy week and have seen pictures that Dan posted on Facebook...but I thought the blog needed the complete story as well.

Monday (April 18th) my girls were out of school for Spring Break. I had a doctor's apt with my perinatologist first thing in the morning. I left my girls home (don't tell) with a list of things I wanted them to have done by the time I got home. I told them if they got everything done we could get an ice cream after we went into Dan's office for a while.

During my apt they were doing their usual monitoring that I have done every week. During that monitoring they noticed that the baby's heart rate was having pretty significant dips every 7 mins or so. They weren't happy with that info and took me in for the ultrasound to see what was up. The sonographer did lots of measurements and doppler traces, but half the time I have no idea what they're looking at or looking for so I really had no idea what was going on. She also did some growth measurements and I knew the doctor wasn't going to like the numbers she was telling me. She left the room and told me the doctor would be right in. I laid there for a few minutes wondering what in the world was going on and hoping my girls were getting everything done on their "chore" list. The nurse popped her head in and asked "have we given you any steroid shots?". They hadn't, but I knew that wasn't a good question. The doctor finally came in after what felt like forever and I said, "We're not behaving very well today are we?". His reply was, "No, but everything is going to be better by the end of the day. I've spoken with your OB and we are in agreement that this baby needs to be born today." (I immediately started bawling...afraid for this little one who still needs 6 more weeks inside of me to be really strong and healthy). He told me that the drops in the baby's heart rate are signs that the baby is under stress and the ultrasound showed the cord wrapped around the baby's neck 3 times and that the blood was actually flowing OUT of the cord, not INTO the baby. He said this info combined with the growth restriction that we've been facing the entire pregnancy tell him that this baby needs to come today. He said he had already phoned the maternity ward at the hospital and that Kathy on the 3rd floor is waiting for me and I need to go straight there.

Hmmmm...I'm thinking that maybe I shouldn't have left my kids home alone right about now. But I got a hold of Dan (scared him to death because I was being a bawl baby), got the kids lined up to be picked up by a friend (thanks again Brooke!) and headed off to meet Kathy on the 3rd floor. They got me all situated and told me the doctor would be there in a few hours to do a c-section. The nurse explained that the baby was under too much stress to even attempt a vaginal birth and that the cord around the neck would make the process very risky as well. So I sat there in bed for the next few hours trying to get as many affairs arranged as possible (the girls, the dog, the payroll, my haircut, our Spring Break hotel plans etc...). It is funny to me what priorities make there way to the top of the list when a critical situation arises.


Here is the last photo of the Norris family as a family of 4. I sort of look like I've already been given a bunch of drugs, but really I hadn't been given any yet. I think the stress and emotion of the last few hours are showing loud and clear on my face.



Dan is all suited up and ready for the operating room...

And here she is...Avery Faith Norris!!! Born at 34 weeks weighing in at exactly 3 lbs 3 ozs.

Why does this picture make me tear up (besides the fact that I'm really hormonal :), the look of utter panic on her face makes me sad that she was just ripped from her warm, safe swimming pool with no idea why.
Dan cutting the cord with the assistance of the NICU team...


Love that little cute face already...



My first peek...just wondering what the next few hours will bring for this little one.



Little Avery getting all cleaned up and hooked up to who knows what.

She is doing so well! We are truly witnessing miracles with each day that passes. She hasn't needed any oxygen (at all), she sucks on a binky like there's no tomorrow (as you saw on Dan's facebook video), she drank from a bottle for the first time like a pro, yesterday they even let us attempt nursing for the first time and she did fabulous! The only problem that has even come up, is that her billi count is high and she has to be under the jaundice lights...but this is so normal and routine that every bed has a light on it. For the staff this is more normal than abnormal.



Dan is getting to be a pro at taking her temp and changing the tiniest diaper we've ever seen.





There really are no words to express the thankfulness that we feel having this little miracle baby here in the first place. We are so grateful that she is doing so well so far and we really thank our Heavenly Father for this blessing. Thanks to all of you who have been praying for this little one for months now (even years...).

Big yawn...





I got to give Avery her first bottle, but it was in the wee hours of the morning and Dan was home in bed sleeping. Here is Dan loving every minute of giving her her second bottle that was gone in less than 30 seconds literally because they are only giving her teaspoons at a time until she proves that her stomach can handle the food.

I thought Kallie and Syd would love seeing Avery with her "shades" on. She really looks like she lying on some beach in Hawaii under those lights.



We'll keep you all posted as the days and weeks progress. They are estimating a 3-4 week stay in the NICU...but as of right now she just needs to eat and grow. We pray everyday that she stays on their "eat and grow" list...that's the one we want her on. All I can say is that the Norris family truly believes in and are thankful for the little miracles!!!